Just fuck off. The moment she sets foot back in the country she should be thrown inside for 20 years. If this was a bloke there wouldn't even be a discussion. After being told for the last 10 years that women are as strong as any man and they should be treated as equals then you don't get to backtrack when it suits. You made your shitty bed so off you pop and enjoy your life in some shithole with your scummy brother/partner/cousin.